Benzo Buddies cult orders member NOT to attend grandmother’s funeral

Advice of rescue pill do or dont.
« on: December 27, 2017, 10:16:54 am »

[Buddie]

Does a 5 mg of Valium destroy my w/d ? I am benzo free since 1 of October 2017. I am going to a funeral and I have a hard w/d.
Is zoplicone as bad as benzo? I need to sleep the night before the funeral.
If i take one of them will I be back to zero and has to do all crap again

Re: Advice of rescue pill do or dont.
« Reply #1 on: December 27, 2017, 12:51:08 pm »

[Buddie]

Quote from: [Buddie] on December 27, 2017, 10:16:54 am
Does a 5 mg of Valium destroy my w/d ? I am benzo free since 1 of October 2017. I am going to a funeral and I have a hard w/d.
Is zoplicone as bad as benzo? I need to sleep the night before the funeral.
If i take one of them will I be back to zero and has to do all crap again

Please don’t reinstate. You have three months of very hard work – the worst period –
behind you now. Taking any risk with that is definitely not something to take lightly and it is most certainly not in your best interests.

You do not have to go to any event, funeral or otherwise; put your recovery first. Not only are you ‘entitled’ to put yourself first, it is imperative that you do so, for your own benefit and the benefit of others who are dear to you.

In time, there will be plenty of opportunity to ‘make up for’ your absences and inabilities of this current period, when your mind is clear, your abilities and capabilites have returned and external activities have become an easy, ordinary thing to do, once again.

I had to miss my son’s wedding for similar reasons and (at the time) suffer the ignominy of my own embarrassment which resulted from that, along with those ‘confirming’ feelings of utter helplessness that also arose from it. (That’s not to mention my second-guessing the uninformed assessments of others and “what they must have thought of me”…) However, my abilities and circumstances now are very different and I am the living proof to others, to myself and now, hopefully, you, that very careful management of your condition has to be your first priority and that no one else can do it for you.

Re: Advice of rescue pill do or dont.
« Reply #2 on: December 27, 2017, 01:17:17 pm »

[Buddie]

Quote from: [Buddie] on December 27, 2017, 12:51:08 pm
Quote from: [Buddie] on December 27, 2017, 10:16:54 am
Does a 5 mg of Valium destroy my w/d ? I am benzo free since 1 of October 2017. I am going to a funeral and I have a hard w/d.
Is zoplicone as bad as benzo? I need to sleep the night before the funeral.
If i take one of them will I be back to zero and has to do all crap again

Please don’t reinstate. You have three months of very hard work – the worst period –
behind you now. Taking any risk with that is definitely not something to take lightly and it is most certainly not in your best interests.

You do not have to go to any event, funeral or otherwise; put your recovery first. Not only are you ‘entitled’ to put yourself first, it is imperative that you do so, for your own benefit and the benefit of others who are dear to you.

In time, there will be plenty of opportunity to ‘make up for’ your absences and inabilities of this current period, when your mind is clear, your abilities and capabilites have returned and external activities have become an easy, ordinary thing to do, once again.

I had to miss my son’s wedding for similar reasons and (at the time) suffer the ignominy of my own embarrassment which resulted from that, along with those ‘confirming’ feelings of utter helplessness that also arose from it. (That’s not to mention my second-guessing the uninformed assessments of others and “what they must have thought of me”…) However, my abilities and circumstances now are very different and I am the living proof to others, to myself and now, hopefully, you, that very careful management of your condition has to be your first priority and that no one else can do it for you.


Yes, you are so right.. It is my grand mothers funeral. It makes me so sad. Feels like I am in a mental prision.
I was taking a glass of Baileys last weekend and I start to feel anxiety after that….So no more alcihol

4 thoughts on “Benzo Buddies cult orders member NOT to attend grandmother’s funeral

  1. “Please don’t reinstate.”

    ^^There’s the prescriptive, non-medical advice that’s allegedly not permitted on benzobuddies. In reality it’s rife there, but it’s never meaningfully addressed by admin.

    Why not? In my experience it’s coming from the top > down to unofficially turn a blind eye to it. Benzobuddies is far from politically neutral, it’s taken a position that just happens to coincide with most of CCHR’s manifesto. Coincidence?

    Benzobuddies can say whatever they like about how many people they’re alleged to have helped, but we know that we can identify a tree by the fruit it bears.

    In this case the fruit is mental / emotional / physical / financial harm / stalking / man-hating / identity theft / Scientologist infiltration / vile hatred for medics including death threats & lawsuit threats. < That's not an exhaustive list, by the way.

    We also have a long list of self-harm and suicides after benzobuddies instructed people to avoid mental health services!! Those people are now DEAD!

    The zombies can ignore this all they want and come here to tell us what hateful losers we are if we post about it, but the reality is that benzobuddies can measurably be identified as a group that harms people and promotes absurd conspiracy theories & dangerous medical advice. CoM does no such harm to anyone.

    These are the established facts. I'm sick of the brain dead propaganda that emanates from that godforsaken environment!

  2. Shut the fuck up Jake you liar. She or he can go to the funeral if they wish but I would not reinstate benzos. What is wrong with advice like that? Nothing you moron. Go find a life instead of sitting around this site all day bashing sick people you hateful little bastard. I hope you burn in hell one day.

  3. Calling me hateful and then wishing I burn in hell? Pot > kettle.

    Anyway, as a former team member and document producer at benzobuddies I’m far more in-tune with how the forum operates than you are. Nothing I’ve said is a lie. I wish it was but, it isn’t.

    It’s that I’m telling the truth that’s made you and others so angry.

    And why is it that most of you seem to lay the same insults and threats of harm onto those speaking out against the cult mentality? You know who else is famous for that kind of reaction?

    Scientologists.

    It’s difficult to see any real difference between a benzobuddy and a scientologist these days.

    Ps, giving prescriptive instructions about not taking benzos is actually against benzobuddies rules. If you don’t like hearing it then perhaps go tell Colin everything you just told me because it’s his rule.

    Wakey wakey, Patricia. You’re in an online cult that’s directly responsible for several people’s deaths.

    And here you are.. defending it and attacking those that care about the lives being lost.

    Shame on you, just like there was a shame on me when I once foolishly did the same as you are now.

    Anyway, have a good night. I hope you escape it all one day.

  4. Do you know what came to mind today, Patricia?

    If benzobuddies admins hadn’t treated me with such atrocious betrayal (which I was singled out for) then I’d probably never have stopped and questioned their true values.

    And now they have an army of benzobuddies to continue harassing me (including making fake accounts here with my name on it in an attempt to discredit me before I spoke out) whilst simultaneously operating under draconian security measures to preserve the status quo and prevent contrary opinion on their forum?

    This is also precisely how Scientology operates with their opposition. Isn’t it?

    That’s how I ended up here, Patricia, to expel the trolls and speak for myself. I wouldn’t have done had benzobuddies had not struck first.

    Haven’t benzobuddies just created their own enemies here?

    And are they not producing endless drones to:

    1) Threaten us with violence and hell while simultaneously labelling US as hateful?
    2) To belittle us for speaking truths about scam artists and CCHR infiltration?
    3) To fabricate lies about M59/CoM?
    4) To abuse us personally?

    So what if CoM uses parody to get the point across? So what if we criticise dangerous scammers such as Kristina? So what if we use actual science to support our claims? That does not make anyone posting here a devil!

    We’re not the bad guys here and anyone that calls this a “hate blog” is parroting the anti CoM propaganda from benzobuddies (there’s an entire section of material there to blind benzobuddies from all the suicides, self-harm, broken relationships and health problems that IT is directly creating).

    Ever heard of someone killing themselves because of CoM? No? Exactly. We know that’s not the case for benzobuddies. Doesn’t that concern you?

    Madam, I urge you to take a closer look at the real benzobuddies behind the veil because, believe me, it’s nothing at all like admins are selling it to the followers.

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