I ate a McDonald's grilled salad and holy cow!!! « on: March 27, 2018, 01:15:52 am »
I’ve been feeling normal lately and ate a McDonald’s salad for lunch and it threw me into acute so since 130 pm I have been shaking with the flu times ten. It’s let up a little but I’m cock eyed. I am so sick of not getting to eat the things I love. I’ve eaten the salads before and this hasn’t happened but that’s been months ago. Crazy how we go through phases.
Eyeglasses reving up « on: February 25, 2018, 06:54:17 pm »
I noticed when I’m wearing my glasses my symptoms get reved up my anxiety is Alot worse I can’t figure out why can someone please give me some insight
Re: Eyeglasses reving up « Reply #1 on: February 25, 2018, 07:14:59 pm »
I had this while tapering, but not now. I could only use my reading glasses for a long while. And everything in the distance was blurry especially in the right eye. When I got it checked, the eye doctor said this was very common with benzo tapers in her experience. I hope it improves for you very soon!
Re: Eyeglasses reving up « Reply #2 on: February 25, 2018, 07:19:13 pm »
this has been like this for over a year, its like it revs my anxiety up its really strange
Re: Eyeglasses reving up « Reply #3 on: February 25, 2018, 09:29:33 pm »
Re: Eyeglasses reving up « Reply #4 on: February 25, 2018, 11:33:21 pm »
This forum is completely worthless and a waste if Tim e maybe I’ll just delete my account in the end I’ll have the same answer zip
Re: Eyeglasses reving up « Reply #5 on: February 26, 2018, 05:15:39 am »
I know when I wear contacts and switch to either eye glasses or nothing it would take a while for focus to re adjust and some mild light headed feelings. That was pre benzos, it might be possible that you are experiencing something similar but it may be more noticeable because of the benzo withdrawal. This is the only thing I can think of that I relate to this scenario.
Re: ONE productive thing you did today « Reply #273 on: January 22, 2018, 09:19:36 am »
Went ouside and walked half an hour with the dog.
I went to TESCO today! « on: January 02, 2018, 05:19:06 pm »
In the car!! By myself!!!
I haven’t been able to go there to do any shopping at all for months and the whole ‘online shopping and getting someone to get bits and pieces in between’ has become so stressful I decided that was one of the first things I was going to try and do when I felt stronger.
Last night I had a better sleep and felt half-decent after lunch so decided to have a go. I haven’t been able to drive on the main roads outwith the housing estate but thankfully TESCO is about 10-15 minutes away from the house but still within the estate. However even if I get there, I can’t go in the normal way because there are traffic lights and I seem to freak out if I get ‘trapped’ anywhere like a queue or a busy roundabout or lights. And then I figured out I could maybe park in the staff car park round the back which is reached via a side street before the main entrance to TESCO and means I don’t have to negotiate any traffic lights at all so that’s what I did today. And then did a LOT of deep breathing in order to get out of the car and make it to the front entrance!
But make it I did. I grabbed two filled rolls, two salads and 4 yoghurts, saw an empty checkout and tried not to hyperventilate going through it. There was a Holland and Barrett shop in the same complex so I popped in there afterwards and got some papaya and pineapple as a snack treat then stopped at the cash machine on the way back to the car to get money out as well. Three things I would have had to ask someone to do for me normally.
And I discovered the other good thing about the staff car park is that it’s pretty quiet so I was able to give a whoop of delight when I got back to the car without any men in white coats appearing to take me somewhere padded
And then I took the car for a 10 minute run which involved going onto one of the main roads which did produce a mild panic attack but I was able to calm myself down once I turned off into a side street.
Now that’s a big deal for me because whenever the panic has started before when I’ve done something like that, it’s always just got worse and worse and no amount of breathing exercises or calming strategies have worked in the slightest. As you can imagine, being the driver in a car when that happens and still having to have a 20 minute journey to get back home makes that a frightening experience and results in eventual avoidance. So the fact that I seem to now be able to become calmer while still IN the car says to me that my brain is very definitely healing and reduces the terrible fear factor somewhat. Well it reduces it in theory ……
Once home, I popped the shopping in the fridge and took myself off for a walk to celebrate. Possibly being the only human being on the streets, it being a very wet and windy afternoon but you know how it is – you feel better and you just want to do some ‘normal’ stuff for a change.
I was able to go much further away from the house than I normally do although timewise my walk was only 5 minutes longer than yesterday’s but it was much more of a WALK if you know what I mean. Yesterday I was tootling around the lanes and paths very close to my house and eking out the walk to give me a decent time – today I was properly walking on the pavements at a good pace and being ‘normal’ tired rather than ‘scared’ tired.
Which of course means I am now knackered, feel terrible and could go off to bed right this minute!!
Still it’s nice to put a tick (for a window) in the notebook where I’m keeping track of what I take and how I feel on a daily basis instead of a cross because there’s been somewhat of an abundance of crosses lately
Good start to the year eh?
Feel like I completely screwed myself and now feel hopeless « on: November 20, 2017, 10:07:02 pm »
I can’t help but feel like my failed Valium crossover and then all of the one off updoses that I very stupidly took to help me sleep have completely screwed me up. I’ve never felt so physically sick or mentally off. It’s unbearable I’m bed ridden and absolutely overwhelmed with terror and irrational thoughts 24/7. I don’t know what to do anymore I think I kindled myself so badly. I just wanted relief. This is my history:
Last year I did a daily liquid microtaper from February until November. I would liquefy one of my .5 mg tablets in 100 mL’s of milk and take our 1.2 mL’s a day until it was gone. So I got down to 1.5 mg’s around November of last year when I was slammed with symptoms/side effects and after seeking advice I decided to updose to 2 and then ultimately reinstate back at 2.5. This did not stabilize me at all and I wish more than anything I had just held at 1.5. In May of this year I had a failed Valium crossover. I then went back to 2.5 and tried a dry cut going extremely slow and only got from 2.5 to 2.375 cutting at a little less than 5% but I felt so terrible that I again went back to 2.5 and actually tried going to 3 mg’s for six days to see if I could get relief and did not so I then went back to 2.5 which is where I am now and have been for a few months with occasional 5 mg Valium updoses mixed in.
A little confused by what people consider success « on: August 26, 2017, 12:40:45 pm »
I’m getting close to being off 3 years. I’m a lot better but can’t say that I am healed. I see some that claim to be healed at 6 months and others that say they are not symptom free even 6 years out. I won’t post a success story untill I have at least a 6 month period where I don’t even give withdrawal a thought. I still can’t make plans without considering what symptoms will pop up and when.
This proccess has without a doubt impacted the quality of my life. To say otherwise would be lying and giving the wrong impression to those looking for answers.
I have learned to live with this but it doesn’t mean that I feel better. I do have stretches of time that I feel good and don’t think about this healing process. This is an improvement from even a year ago. I am hopeful that I can see a marked improvement this tim next year. This is what keeps me going.
I am very active and at 66 I look and feel much younger. This is probably due to how I have taken care of myself throughout my life. I take some supplements, d, e, k, c, omega3, and coconut oil. I stopped multiple vitamins and herbal supplements shortly after I began my withdrawal. I think that herbal supplements can cause a lot of issues that send people to the doctor only to have him prescribe a benzo to counter their side effects. This is my theory anyway!
Here is where I am now! If not being on the floor shaking uncontrollably is a success, then yes I am there! If being able to have a conversation with someone without having moments of lightheadedness or shortness of breath or my jaws tighten, then no! I don’t leave the house without thinking that this will possibly happen sometime during my day.
I urge those that are looking for answers and comfort to not put too much importance on others experiences. It is is a good guideline but each of us will have our own timeline in this healing process. I promise that when I consider myself healed, it will be 100% and not any less.